Forgiving Our Fathers (Part Three): The Process of Reconciliation

During this month, we have taken a look at the father-daughter relationship, good and bad. Before moving on to other subjects about our identity in Christ, let's take another look at our relationships with our earthly fathers to begin the process of reconciliation, where needed.

Remember, reconciliation is a PROCESS...it doesn't happen overnight.

As a point of reflection, take a moment to answer the following questions by Christian counselor, Dr. H. Norman Wright from his book "Healing for the Father Wound":

• How would you describe your relationship with your father?
• In what way was your father there for you?
• In what way wasn't your father there for you?
• Describe how your father has influenced or shaped your life (either negatively or positively).
• If your relationship was lacking, what have you done to overcome this?
• What do you appreciate the most and the least in your father's involvement with you?
• If your father's interaction was missing in your life, how did you fill this void?
• How has your relationship with your earthly father affected your relationship with God and with Jesus?
• At this point in your life, what would you like to be able to say to your father?

For more on what to do to begin the reconciliation process with your father, read "Healing for the Father Wound" by H. Norman Wright.